Let me explain…
Your focus should be on embodying the kind of partner that you want to be.
Not on placing unrealistic expectations on your potential partners and who you have arbitrarily decided they should be for you.
Standards are necessary,
But they start WITHIN you.
- Do you relate to all of you as sacred?
- Do you celebrate your joy, bliss, flow and abundance… as much as you do your grief, sadness and moments of doubt?
- Do you embrace all of you lovingly or do you judge your past and present continuously?
The key to a sacred relationship is simple:
Two people who have learned to relate to themselves in a sacred way.
Because only when you have learned to tend to yourself lovingly, you have the energetic capacity (and experience) to tend to another.
But magic happens when you have so much love flowing through you…
And you find yourself in relationship with someone who has a full cup as well.
That is the point of sacred alchemy.
Where kingdoms are born.
Where your relationship becomes a vehicle of transformation
But this cannot be without your own work.
So focus on this,
and the rest will come.
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